Showing posts with label Heaven. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Heaven. Show all posts

Saturday, 7 August 2010

Some thoughts about praying

Some thoughts about praying expand
Here are some interesting thoughts about the nature of prayer and being God and Heavenward directed in our praying. I have always found The Lord's Prayer a great help and comfort when I am 'stuck' in my prayer life, and it is interesting to see how it is central not only in Catholic and Anglican liturgies but also in Coptic and Jewish worship. In personal devotion it is also an invaluable aid.
The Kaddish is a prayer found in the Jewish prayer service. The central theme of the Kaddish is the magnification and sanctification of God ‘s holy name. It is the traditional prayer for the dead in the synagogue.

There are variations on the Kaddish, and I offer here the more general form for your consideration:

“May the great Name of God be exalted and sanctified, throughout the world, which he has created according to his will. May his Kingship be established in your lifetime and in your days, and in the lifetime of the entire household of Israel, swiftly and in the near future; and say, Amen.
May his great name be blessed, forever and ever.
Blessed, praised, glorified, exalted, extolled, honored, elevated, and lauded be the Name of the holy one, Blessed is he- above and beyond any blessings and hymns, Praises and consolations which are uttered in the world; and say,
May there be abundant peace from Heaven and life, upon us and upon all Israel; and say, Amen.”

The striking nature of this prayer for the dead is that it does not mention the dead! The prayer is about God. It reminds me of the time when a funeral services in a traditional liturgical church were about God. It used to be that one heard complaints that the Anglican (or Roman or Lutheran) liturgy for the burial of the dead did not even mention the name of the deceased. Nowadays matters have swung much too far in the other direction. Our funerals in the west are now ALL about the dead. God is mentioned only as a measure of respectability or a desperate attempt to redeem the one who has died.

We can learn a lot from the Jewish Kaddish as we think about the prayer that Jesus gave us to pray. We pray also in a similar manner to that of our Jewish brothers and sisters, asking that God’s name be made holy, that God’s kingdom come so that God’s will may be accomplished. We acknowledge God as the source of all earthly blessings. We seek redemption, and we pray that we not fail in our courage at the hour of death and that peace (shalom) will prevail at the end.

In the Jewish faith the Kaddish in its various forms is not recited only on special occasions such as funerals. The Kaddish closes every service. The Kaddish is said daily and even several times a day. As one Rabbi says, “Just do it!” One understands why this admonition is so critical to the life of faith, for God is often hidden behind the veil of this life with its suffering and injustice. Prayers like the Kaddish and the Lord’s Prayer not only evoke God’s presence but they also evoke from us a true sense of humanity as we stand before God who made heaven and earth.

One of the things that attracted me to the liturgical tradition was the constant use of the Lord’s prayer in the life of the faithful. This was a great contrast with my very non-liturgical (or anti-liturgical) upbringing, in which we were taught to use the Lord’s prayer simply as a model by which we were to pray strictly from the heart.

But Jesus did not instruct his disciples to fashion their prayers along the line of a model. He said to them, “When you pray, say: Father, hallowed be your name. Your kingdom come. Give us each day our daily bread. And forgive us our sins, for we ourselves forgive everyone indebted to us. And do not bring us to the time of trial.” (Luke 11:2-4)

I don’t think we have any liturgies that are without the Lord’s prayer. It’s almost Pavlovian. When I hear the prayer, I think it is time to leave. One parishioner once worried about our use of the small bell when we pray the Our Father during the Eucharistic prayer. They said, it almost made them salivate for the bread and wine and the future that is promised in the sacred meal. Now that is Pavlovian!

But the truth is, we are to pray the Lord’s prayer as often as possible in order that we remain conscious of the truth of the incomprehensible mystery of the presence of God around us mortal creatures who are incomplete without the knowledge that we are loved by this same God. That is who we really are.

The Didache, which is one of the oldest manuals on the Christian faith, dictates that we pray this way three times a day. (8:3)

In the Coptic liturgy the Lord’s prayer is said over and over again at an incredible speed. For the prayer in its totality evokes the sacred presence. The Lord’s Prayer is a linguistic symbol capable of placing us properly in the world and before God.

We should recite the Lord’s prayer as often as possible, as Jesus admonishes in the Gospel. Ignore the wrongheaded advice from simpleminded fundamentalists that would have you believe that any prayer that is written down can not be from the heart. Our Lord has bidden us to pray this prayer.

The repetition is nothing other than our persistent turning to God for help, renewal and peace. In this way the prayer delivers the blessing that Christ himself came to deliver—life now and forevermore.

When the faithful visit each other at times of illness or in times of grief, it is the Lord’s prayer that most often is the decisive moment among us. As I have visited with those who face surgery or the funeral of a beloved one, I sensed more than once that all the effort that we put into holding ourselves together, of running on our own steam, condenses into the tears of relief that God is here, and in the end it is all about God.

There are variations on the Kaddish, and I offer here the more general form for your consideration:

“May the great Name of God be exalted and sanctified, throughout the world, which he has created according to his will. May his Kingship be established in your lifetime and in your days, and in the lifetime of the entire household of Israel, swiftly and in the near future; and say, Amen.
May his great name be blessed, forever and ever.
Blessed, praised, glorified, exalted, extolled, honored, elevated, and lauded be the Name of the holy one, Blessed is he- above and beyond any blessings and hymns, Praises and consolations which are uttered in the world; and say,
May there be abundant peace from Heaven and life, upon us and upon all Israel; and say, Amen.”

The striking nature of this prayer for the dead is that it does not mention the dead! The prayer is about God. It reminds me of the time when a funeral services in a traditional liturgical church were about God. It used to be that one heard complaints that the Anglican (or Roman or Lutheran) liturgy for the burial of the dead did not even mention the name of the deceased. Nowadays matters have swung much too far in the other direction. Our funerals in the west are now ALL about the dead. God is mentioned only as a measure of respectability or a desperate attempt to redeem the one who has died.

We can learn a lot from the Jewish Kaddish as we think about the prayer that Jesus gave us to pray. We pray also in a similar manner to that of our Jewish brothers and sisters, asking that God’s name be made holy, that God’s kingdom come so that God’s will may be accomplished. We acknowledge God as the source of all earthly blessings. We seek redemption, and we pray that we not fail in our courage at the hour of death and that peace (shalom) will prevail at the end.

In the Jewish faith the Kaddish in its various forms is not recited only on special occasions such as funerals. The Kaddish closes every service. The Kaddish is said daily and even several times a day. As one Rabbi says, “Just do it!” One understands why this admonition is so critical to the life of faith, for God is often hidden behind the veil of this life with its suffering and injustice. Prayers like the Kaddish and the Lord’s Prayer not only evoke God’s presence but they also evoke from us a true sense of humanity as we stand before God who made heaven and earth.

One of the things that attracted me to the liturgical tradition was the constant use of the Lord’s prayer in the life of the faithful. This was a great contrast with my very non-liturgical (or anti-liturgical) upbringing, in which we were taught to use the Lord’s prayer simply as a model by which we were to pray strictly from the heart.

But Jesus did not instruct his disciples to fashion their prayers along the line of a model. He said to them, “When you pray, say: Father, hallowed be your name. Your kingdom come. Give us each day our daily bread. And forgive us our sins, for we ourselves forgive everyone indebted to us. And do not bring us to the time of trial.” (Luke 11:2-4)

I don’t think we have any liturgies that are without the Lord’s prayer. It’s almost Pavlovian. When I hear the prayer, I think it is time to leave. One parishioner once worried about our use of the small bell when we pray the Our Father during the Eucharistic prayer. They said, it almost made them salivate for the bread and wine and the future that is promised in the sacred meal. Now that is Pavlovian!

But the truth is, we are to pray the Lord’s prayer as often as possible in order that we remain conscious of the truth of the incomprehensible mystery of the presence of God around us mortal creatures who are incomplete without the knowledge that we are loved by this same God. That is who we really are.

The Didache, which is one of the oldest manuals on the Christian faith, dictates that we pray this way three times a day. (8:3)

In the Coptic liturgy the Lord’s prayer is said over and over again at an incredible speed. For the prayer in its totality evokes the sacred presence. The Lord’s Prayer is a linguistic symbol capable of placing us properly in the world and before God.

We should recite the Lord’s prayer as often as possible, as Jesus admonishes in the Gospel. Ignore the wrongheaded advice from simpleminded fundamentalists that would have you believe that any prayer that is written down can not be from the heart. Our Lord has bidden us to pray this prayer.

The repetition is nothing other than our persistent turning to God for help, renewal and peace. In this way the prayer delivers the blessing that Christ himself came to deliver—life now and forevermore.

When the faithful visit each other at times of illness or in times of grief, it is the Lord’s prayer that most often is the decisive moment among us. As I have visited with those who face surgery or the funeral of a beloved one, I sensed more than once that all the effort that we put into holding ourselves together, of running on our own steam, condenses into the tears of relief that God is here, and in the end it is all about God.

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Friday, 4 June 2010

Whatever Doesn't Kill you makes you Stronger

I don 't know where the title I have used originated, but I believe from events that have occurred in my own life recently show that there is a great deal of truth in it.

Without going into the gory details, my wife and I have been through a very testing period in our lives recently and just as you think things are working out, something comes along to knock you to the ground again. The amazing thing is that I can still smile, laugh and yes, even enjoy day to day life on this wonderful planet Earth where we all share in the same kind of experiences one way or another (life's rich tapestry!). I am a firm believer in the words found in the Bible in Romans 8:28; 'We KNOW that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to His purpose.'

Later in the same chapter, verses 37 to 39 Paul says: 'In all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us. For I am am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.' The Apostle Paul wrote these words. Before his conversion he was a murderer of Christians and actually stood holding the coats of the men who killed the first Christian martyr, Stephen by stoning him to death. After his dramatic conversion on the road to Damascus he spent some time in the desert before being called to preach the Good news of Jesus to the Jews and Gentiles. We think he was eventually executed in Rome for his Christian faith.

As a Christian I believe that God does test us to see if we can still put our faith and trust in Him, as a child puts his hand in his father's hand and allows him to guide him, without asking any questions. I do ask questions (because I am an adult of 55 and have seen a great deal of life), but I still believe that God is in control of my ultimate destiny. I need to become more child-like in my faith and I believe God is working on that. As I believe that He sent His son, Jesus to die for my sins, I know that ultimately I will spend eternity with Him in heaven, not through my goodness, but through my faith in His finished work.

In John 3:16 Jesus says 'For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life.'

Is God speaking to you in the same way as He has spoken to me through my life's experiences and what is going on in the world. You too can have the assurance of eternal life with Him in Heaven if you put your faith in Jesus and ask Him into your heart and life to take control. If you haven't done this already, why not-

'Put your hand in the hand of the man who stilled the water,

Put your hand in the man who calmed the sea.

Take a look at yourself and you will look at others differently,

Put your hand in the hand from the man from Galilee.'

God bless You richly wherever you are. Send me any comments or questions about this article, I would be happy to discuss any of the points I have raised and to share your experiences.